You've learned from your past breakups that open communication is essential to a happy relationship and that there will always be a gulf between you if you feel like your partner is hiding something from you.
You learned from your prior heartbreaks that setting boundaries is important, and that anyone who deliberately crosses them or puts pressure on you to alter them doesn't respect you enough to be allowed to stay in your space.
You've learned from your past heartbreaks that no matter how hard you try to win someone over or how much work you put into making them happy, you can't make them change their mind.
You've learned from your previous heartbreaks that a relationship cannot last without trust since there will always be doubts, fights, and unresolved issues that make you uncomfortable.
You've learned from your past heartbreaks that minimizing your feelings is more concerned with their own peace of mind than with yours. Your emotions are real and legitimate.
You learned from your prior heartbreaks that ending a bad relationship is far harder than sticking with it, but it's also far more fulfilling and will make you feel like yourself again.
You learned from your previous heartbreaks that you can love someone and wish them the best without needing them in your life or on your phone.
You've learned from your prior heartbreaks that you are enough, but the incorrect person will never be able to appreciate your worth the way your forever partner will, which will make you feel inadequate.
You learned from your past heartbreaks that you are the only one who gets to choose what you want to put your energy into, so you don't owe anyone your time, your heart, or your body.
Your past heartbreaks have taught you that you are not stupid for falling for someone you believed was interested in you and that it is them, not you, who needs to feel ashamed.